Introduction: Our study of Matthew this week pictures two betrayers
and one woman fully devoted to Jesus. What does it mean, really, to
betray Jesus? What does it mean to be fully devoted to Jesus? Why is
the outcome so much different for one betrayer than for the other?
Let’s plunge into our study of the Bible and learn more!

  1. The Plotters and the Woman

    1. Read Matthew 26:1-2. This is obviously very discouraging
      news. Why share it with the disciples? (Jesus wanted them
      to be warned (again).)

      1. What does that suggest about significant last-day
        events? (Jesus will warn us about important and
        challenging events.)

    2. Read Matthew 26:3-7. We have two opposing pictures. One of
      a group that is plotting to kill Jesus and another of a
      woman who is making a great sacrifice for Jesus. Given
      Jesus understanding of His soon-coming death, how do you
      think He felt about the woman? (This is this bright star
      in an otherwise dark situation. I would be so grateful to

    3. Read Matthew 26:8-9. How do you explain the disciple’s
      reaction? They have been told that Jesus is about to die,
      should they not join in doing something special for Him?
      (I think the disciples resisted believing what Jesus told
      them. They did not want to believe that He would die.)

      1. How would you react if you were this woman and you
        heard this criticism? You have sacrificed to buy this
        perfume, and now the disciples are criticizing you
        for it!

      2. There is an assumption in this text I want you to
        notice. The disciples did not say she should have
        given money to the poor instead of buying perfume,
        they say she could have sold the perfume. What does
        this tell us about how this woman obtained the
        perfume? (It was a gift. Evidently, it was not
        something she could afford.)

    4. Read Matthew 26:10-13. This was a gift, someone intended
      the woman to use it. Instead, she chose one self-sacrificing use for it instead of the self-sacrificing use
      suggested by the disciples. Should the disciples have the
      right to tell her which self-sacrificing expenditure she
      must make? (They don’t have the right advice. Jesus says
      that what she has done will be talked about throughout

      1. Are there opportunities around you to lift the
        spirits of those who are discouraged with some

      2. Will they also talk throughout the world about the
        disciples criticizing this self-sacrificing woman?

      3. What is the difference between the attitude of the
        woman and the disciples? (She was fully devoted to
        Jesus. The disciples were devoted to making their own
        judgment about the best use of her perfume.)

  2. Judas

    1. Read Matthew 26:14-16. Was Judas one who criticized the

      1. Why do you think Judas betrayed Jesus? Had he now
        decided to hate Jesus? (I have two theories. First,
        that he did not believe that Jesus could be killed –
        and that He might as well collect money as a reward
        for forcing Jesus to declare Himself King. Second,
        that Jesus was serious about dying, in which case he
        deserved the money for his wasted time in hanging
        around for three years. In either event, he trusted
        himself and not Jesus.)

      2. Read Matthew 18:7. Is this a description of Judas’

    2. Read Matthew 26:17-22. The disciples assumed the betrayal
      was not already taking place. Why? (Because all except
      Judas had not betrayed Him.)

      1. We’ve discussed my views about Judas’ plot. What were
        the other disciples thinking – had it crossed their
        mind that they could make a little money on this
        unfortunate turn of events? (They were just sad about
        it, and worried that they might be unreliable.)

      2. Why did Jesus disclose that He would be betrayed? Do
        you think He wanted to make Judas feel guilty, or did
        He want him to abandon his plan, or did Jesus have
        something else in mind?

    3. Read Matthew 26:23-25. This is a very serious event in the
      mind of the disciples. Do you think they understood that
      Judas was betraying Jesus?

      1. If so, why didn’t they attack Judas? Why not threaten
        him so he would not do it? Why not restrain him so
        that he could not betray Jesus?

      2. When Judas said, “Surely not I, Rabbi,” what does
        that tell us about his willingness to abandon his
        plan? (Judas had made his decision. He now lied to
        cover it up.)

  3. Last Supper

    1. Read Matthew 26:26-30. Put yourself in the place of the
      disciples. Would you have any idea what Jesus was talking
      about? He first says He is about to be killed, and now He
      is talking about symbolically eating His body and drinking
      His blood.

    2. Consider what we have studied so far. The disciples think
      they have better judgment than the woman. Judas thinks he
      has better judgment than Jesus. What point is Matthew
      making by putting this account of the Last Supper here?

  4. Peter

    1. Read Matthew 26:31-35. Do you think that Peter is telling
      the truth? (Read John 18:10-11. In John’s account of
      Jesus’ arrest, Peter draws his sword, he is willing to die
      for Jesus. He is telling the truth.)

      1. How is Peter different than Judas? (Peter is not
        acting to benefit himself.)

    2. Let’s skip down after Jesus’ arrest. Read Matthew 26:57-58. Is Peter still showing great courage?

    3. Read Matthew 26:69-75. Yesterday, I read some good
      intentioned person sharing about how we need to work hard
      against sin, that we were facing Satan, and we better be
      up for the fight (Jesus helping us, of course). What is
      Peter’s failure? What character defect does he display?
      What flaw in his personality is the great problem? (Peter
      was fully on-board with Jesus. He was willing to fight and
      die. But, he was confused about Jesus not fighting and
      Jesus talking about eating His body and drinking His
      blood. Peter did not know what to think.)

      1. What, then, should Peter have done? (Simply trusted

    4. Let’s go back over our study. In the dispute between the
      disciples and the woman over the best use of the perfume,
      who was trusting Jesus and who was trusting in their own
      judgment? (The disciples were trusting their own

    5. In the account of Judas betrayal, who is Judas trusting?
      (Himself. He thinks he knows more than Jesus.)

    6. In the record of the Last Supper, what is Jesus’ point
      about eating His body and drinking His blood? (Salvation
      comes only through Jesus. He is the sacrificial Lamb of
      the sanctuary service. He is the only path to salvation.)

    7. Peter does not think he is smarter than Jesus. Although he
      was willing to die, somehow he made a mess of things and
      betrayed Jesus. Tell me what Peter should have done to
      avoid this outcome? (Re-read Matthew 26:31-33. Peter
      should have put away his pride and asked Jesus, “How can I
      avoid doing that? Tell me what I need to do to fully
      support You rather than betray You.”)

    8. Friend, I don’t think it is good advice to put up your
      fists and fight Satan. I don’t think it is good advice to
      focus on hunting down and eliminating every sin in your
      life. The focus of your life must be to trust God, even
      when all of the world seems out of control. You can start
      that right now by asking the Holy Spirit, every day, to
      guide your every decision and your every thought so that
      you will make it a habit to trust God.

  5. Next week: Crucified and Risen.